ok well does anyone know how to change camileas clothes?
It is possible to change her clothes. Not just that, even to remove hunting bow some followers are using even when you give them stronger one.
I think it goes like this: open console commands menu. Click on your spouse. Then type (im not sure how dis one goes, havent done it in long time) additem "ID" 1 . If it has better stats NPC will equip it. However, about clothes, im not rly sure: removeitem "ID" 1, maybe she would go around house naked, then you can do "additem" thing and give her another one. LIm not sure if this "removeitem"
Either way, you might want to look it up on internet. Also having last perk in pickpocket would help you a lot. I aint so sure in which order it goes, is it removeitem->additem, or additem->pickpocket clothes/bow/other stuff...
Anyway, i know there is a video of this, i will post it here as soon as i find it.